2009-03-20 How to Reach Orgasm
 Not all of us are ready to take masturbation as a part of complete sexual life in view of education or other reasons. But, fortunately, there is nothing wrong or bad in masturbation for the female organism. Self-stimulation not just promotes orgasm reaching, but it can also make us get satisfaction during sexual contact with a partner.
Clitoris stimulation, especially with the help of sex toys, such as clitoral pumps and teasers, causes intensive but localized orgasm. During sexual intercourse, this feeling becomes more acute. This difference of sensation explains why some women, having clitoral orgasm during masturbation, are not sure to reach it during sex. Physiologically, a reflex phenomenon of the vagina during orgasm is always the same and it does not depend on stimulant.
Six rules for the creation of the needed mood:
In order not to be anxious, provide yourself with enough time and intimate atmosphere.
Before making love, try not to touch upon work, money, children and other questions, which can become the reason of disagreement.
Stop arguing before going to bed. Never use sex as conciliation.
If you are nervous before intimacy, relax with the help of respiratory gymnastics or other relaxing exercises.
Don't worry about your partner's pleasure during sex, concentrate on your own feelings, excluding everything else. Impatience and anxiety during orgasm delay brings bustle in your sensations.
And the most important one: if orgasm does not come, don't be panic. Human organism is a puzzle, especially female one. Next time try to approach more seriously to this question and everything will be great! If you want it to come, you will get it sooner or later!
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