2010-03-02 If you do not have sex for a long time. Part 4
 And a little of sublimation
Every man is mad on some point. There are potential women-workaholic who all their unspent sexual ardour will transfer to the work and actively developing career. "Businesswoman 24 hours a say" - it is their appearance. But, unfortunately, statistic is implacable to such women. Women that have permanent sexual life for a long time make career more successful. Also they differ with mildness and loyalty in conducting business what business partners appreciate more than unmotivated aggression.
Second type. Women spent their caresses on children (here important notice: it doesn't matter, whose). If there are no children, don't doubt, she will find them - will join charity. Some women become diet's admirers, and all at once, some begin to cast blight on others life, overhearing and spying. But, generally, these women remind more... tin can. Their desires, possibilities, real and potential, their passion and glare - all these are accurately sealed and kept in a tin can till the expiration date, but more simply, till "it's time".
Women's long abstention sometimes lead to irreversible effects: first contact can be racking and dolorous.
However, taking care of yourself, don't forget about your partner. Unfortunately, you are not first and not last.
For beginning, just try to speak with him. If your beloved withdraws into himself, transfers everything in a joke or just stops in the middle of a sentence and goes to "have a walk", the approach is wrong.
To psychologist, and all the more to sexologist he, with 99.99 % probability will refuse to go. Try to be sly: if you are sure that he will not get angry, tell him that you are going to visit a doctor and need his presence there as moral support. As a last resort, consult the specialist alone. Of course, it will not give them full picture of your relations, but some you will get guaranteed. And you have to do this not placing on a shelf.
If you will find out that it is from a more earthly area - your or his sexual function malfunction - it will be necessary to occupy with it long and hardly. But doesn’t peace and happiness in family worse such efforts. »
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